Does your drop-off routine have you and your preschooler feeling tentative in the mornings? You’re not alone! Veteran and new parents alike know that preschool drop-offs aren’t always easy, but with time and a few tactics, the transition can run smoothly. Here are a few tried and true tips to help your whole family be more prepared.
Talk about what will happen and act it out
If you’re worried about how drop-off will play out, tell your child what is going to happen. Knowing what to expect can ease anxiety and help your child feel less overwhelmed. You can even do a run-through of their new routine ahead of time. Find some practical ideas to practice drop-offs with your child in this blog article.
Create connection
If mornings at home feel stressful and rushed, then drop-off likely will, too. Carve out some time each morning to connect with your child. Whether it’s some extra cuddles while talking about the plan for the day or reading a book together before heading out the door, find a moment to “fill the bucket” of your little one.
Exude positive energy and confidence
Since children naturally pick up on their parent’s emotions, it’s important to remain positive and confident. Your energy will inform their experience), so try to bring a calm spirit to the process, even if mornings can be busy. Eliminating possible stressors can help everyone in the family have a good day (and your child may handle drop-off better than you think!) That could mean leaving a bit early to avoid rush hour traffic or taking a moment to have some alone time for yourself. Finding a preschool partner you can trust can also take some worry off your plate. Remember, taking care of you is so important when you’re a parent!
Create a goodbye routine
What steps will you take when saying your daily goodbye? Create a ritual like helping your child hang up their backpack, giving a kiss and hug, a high five, or a special handshake. Stay consistent and do this when it’s time to part ways at drop-off. It’s something just the two of you have and can look forward to every morning.
Say a warm farewell
Lingering in the classroom or staying too long trying to console your child can have the opposite effect. The longer you stay, the harder it can be for your child to transition out of the upset. This is where your goodbye routine can come in handy!
If your child holds onto you and cries, give them a big hug, acknowledge their feelings, and let them know you’ll be back for them. Children typically calm down very quickly, and our early childhood educators are skilled at comforting and redirecting young children who need a little extra help transitioning.
The Gardner School Makes Mornings Smoother
Having a positive start to your day is important, and we’re here to help. Our skilled and caring teachers understand child development and know how to help make morning drop-offs go smoothly. Schedule a tour at The Gardner School nearest you to learn more about our approach to education, growth, and development.
