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Introducing Preschoolers to Pets

Family Living | March 25, 2024
Little girl petting a dog

Animals can add so much joy, wonder, and excitement to our lives! It’s estimated that 66% of U.S. households have pets, with dogs being the most popular, followed by cats and freshwater fish. Many people view their pets as part of their family, and in addition to all of the love and companionship they can provide, a positive relationship with a pet can be beneficial to a child’s development. 

Initial Introductions

If you’re bringing a new pet home to your family, you want everyone to get off on the right paw! Here are a few pointers to ensure that the first interactions are positive for everyone.

  • Keep Introductions Calm and Positive
    • Help your child to sit calmly and quietly when meeting a new pet. If the new pet is a dog, it will usually be curious and come over to investigate! 
    • Explain that speaking softly and slowly to pets is always a great way to interact with them, even beyond the first meeting.
    • Show your child which parts of the animal’s body are safe for a gentle pat. Encourage them to stroke the side of an animal’s body rather than the face. 
    • When your child sees an animal out in public, teach them to always ask you and the owner if it’s ok to touch the animal.
  • Establish Boundaries
    • Create safe spaces for your furry friend (like a crate or sectioned-off area) and explain to your children that these spaces are only for the pet. When your pet goes to their safe place, they should be left alone. 
    • Set easy-to-understand rules for interacting with the pet for safety.

The Benefits of a Family Pet

Introducing preschoolers to pets and bringing a pet into your family can be an incredibly joyful experience! A positive relationship with a pet can teach preschoolers valuable lessons about trust and companionship. Taking part in routines like feeding their fish can give children a sense of responsibility, which can lend a big boost to their self-esteem and confidence! Sharing a quick cuddle or playing with their furry friend can also help reduce stress and promote a sense of calm. 

Having your preschooler help care for the family pet is also a great way to involve your child in household chores and small tasks. Be sure to check out the lists we’ve compiled in this blog for age-appropriate chores for preschoolers and a few tips on how to make chores a part of your child’s daily routine.

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