Moving is a major life event for anyone of any age. Amidst the excitement and many to-do’s of packing, scheduling, and paperwork, don’t forget to take extra special care of your little one to help make moving homes a fun adventure. Here are four tips to help your preschooler transition when moving homes.
1. Prepare for the Big Day
Help prepare your child for the change by giving them information and context for the move. First, provide reassuring answers to any questions that might come up. Next, use books and media to introduce the concept of moving. The movie Toy Story includes a moving sequence at the end of the film, and books like My Very Exciting, Sorta Scary, Big Move can help your child work through feelings that might arise as you begin packing and planning. While you’re wrapping the glassware and packing up plates, let your child draw on the moving boxes with markers and crayons. Seeing their drawings in a new space can serve as a visual anchor during the transition.
2. Find Moments of Peace on Moving Day
Moving day can be high-energy—there are boxes, furniture, trucks, and extra people. On such an exciting day, build in moments of calm for your preschooler to help with comfort and emotional regulation. If they have a regular nap time, try to keep it consistent. Take the time that day to spend quiet time reading a book together, taking a short walk in the neighborhood, or sharing a favorite snack. These little moments of routine can help your family stay centered and connected on the big day.
3. Take Time to Transition
After the moving truck leaves, it may take a few days, weeks, or months to adjust to your new surroundings. Parents can help children by modeling confidence and excitement about the move. In the first few days following a move, make it a priority to engage in your child’s favorite activities to provide a sense of familiarity in a new space. You can watch a favorite movie, play a favorite game, or even prepare a favorite meal in your new location. If your little one is feeling unsure, let your child know that it’s okay to have many different feelings about moving and that they can share all those feelings with you.
4. Get to Know the New Neighborhood
Once you arrive at the new house, your child may want to explore and investigate their new surroundings. That’s great! Encourage your child to visit every room, open doors, and explore the backyard. Over the next few weeks, you can take walks, play in a local park, and meet your neighbors. Maybe a similar-aged child is living next door, or a fluffy dog, or just a nice family who is excited to meet you and your preschooler. There are so many ways to help your child settle into their new community: host a block party, attend a local family event, and find a trusted local preschool. Local activities and friendly connections are one of the best ways to feel at home in a new community.
The Gardner School Loves Being Your Child’s Happy Place
As you and your family are getting to know a new neighborhood, The Gardner School can serve as a great home base for your little one. We’re deeply connected with our local communities, and we offer so many social opportunities for children to help your preschooler transition when moving homes. To learn why parents choose The Gardner School for their children to grow and learn in any community, contact us to learn more or to schedule a virtual tour.